Sex is not a Sin and Twin Flames Sex

So you want to know what it’s really like to have “twin flames sex”? Well we think that’s a really good question and we’d love to share the answer with you, but first we’d like to open up on the subject a little first, if that’s ok? So, let’s talk about “sex”...

One of the most wonderful experiences we can have as humans has been turned by many over thousands of years into the cause of endless pain. To this day, we have to endure others deciding, defining, what is sexually acceptable and what isn’t. They decide on, what is arguably based on their own experiences, issues and fears and then impose them on the rest of us. Whether they are religious organisations, sects, nationalities, races, governments, or committees, they all think they know and have the right, to draw the line in the sand on what is right and wrong for all of us. If any of us dare to step over those biased boundaries, then we are frowned at or persecuted. The boundaries they define are often based on their own Fears. This form of control and judgement is definitely not what we classify as Love.

Sex is also one of the most powerful motivators there is, not only for light, but also for darkness. Sex has often been used as a big carrot to attract a partner into a relationship, only to be rapidly redefined by one party soon after marriage, to then be followed by years of pain, as the relationship spirals downwards. It has been the cause/reason for endless acts of adultery, lying and deception. Countless relationships and children have suffered because of it and loving caring people hurt, both in and out of the relationship.

Sex has been used for millennia to dominate, repress and control other people. Worse still, it has been the dark hidden indirect motivator behind people who would do anything to become powerful, rich or famous. Why? To be adored? Looked up to? Adulated? Loved? Desired? There was a lot of substance to Freud’s theory that sexual desire was the main motivational energy of human life. Unfortunately, this is not always for the good. We believe that these sexual issues and power games arise when one or both parties have not learnt to truly Love “themselves” enough and are looking “outside” themselves for that Love.

Even within any particular religious organisation/nationality/race, different people have totally differing beliefs on what is acceptable and what isn’t. This is again, based on their own individual Fears. Sexual incompatibility is a major cause of relationship failures. It is so personal we will never really know just how much. Yet, when based on Love, sex can be one of the most uplifting, powerful and divine experiences we can have in life. It can transcend us into euphoria from all the boring day to day worries in life, even if the gas bill still hasn’t been paid. It can bring pleasure to both parties at any time of the day or night, regardless of what the daily schedule is.

Awesome sex is only limited by your own imagination and time. It can take you higher than any drug or alcohol can, to the point where it is purely Divine. As many spiritual writings suggest, sacred sex can unlock the highest levels of spirituality. But what is this “sacred sex” exactly you may ask? Now we’re getting back to what it’s “really” like to have “twin flames sex”. So here we go...

We believe it is the perfect alchemy of love and lust - lust being a magic ingredient to Love and not in duality to it, as many people believe. Are you shocked? We feel that our lust for each other comes from the energy of Divine Love and our chemistry requires both to work together as one. The idea of Love without lust for us, is actually pretty boring!

We think, as long as sex is based on Love and you aren’t hurting anyone emotionally, physically or mentally, then there doesn’t need to be any limit or restriction controlling you and pretty much anything you fancy doing between the two of you is ok. If hurt really is an issue somewhere, then more work needs to be done on the “self” honestly and very gently. This is how we define balancing the male and feminine energies within each of us.

The more these feminine/masculine energies are balanced within both of you, the more doors it opens and frees you to explore without the head games and power trips we’ve all experienced at some time or another in our sex lives. That‘s the difference with us now having twin flames sex together. Both of us have worked very hard on separately balancing the masculine and feminine energies within by learning to Love ourselves unconditionally first, before coming together... And it’s really, really very, very hard, but healing work and truly worth it!

Sometimes when short on time, sex is a quick and frantic coming together for us, but more often than not, we Love to indulge in the theatre of sex over many hours on end. Either way, it’s based totally on Love, so anything goes. As you’ve probably surmised, we have the most intensely wonderful, mind blowingly, sacred and erotically sex life imaginable and more. There is something so liberating in unleashing yourself with the person who is absolutely and undeniably the perfect one for you in every way possible and even after all our years of experience, we constantly discover new things we had never thought of to explore together. This creativity prevents the boredom that so often many couples experience and get stuck in a rut with. Perhaps the fact that our chemistry is so potent and our sex drives are equally insatiable makes it even more amazing. It’s as if our previous experiences with other relationships have enabled us both to practice for the real thing.

There are no limits, as we both share the same desires and neither one of us is being harmed in anyway. We Love to explore the depths of each other’s passion and are even discovering deeper ways to merge on higher and higher levels of ecstasy, as we explore the realms of pure unleashed sexual freedom. This is not the information however, that we are reading about with other twin flame stories. Our Love encompasses absolutely everything and not just the “spiritual union” expressed in other twin flame forums. The fact that other twin flame couples do not always share the same sexual intensity as us is neither good or bad, nor right or wrong by us, as each of these couples are perfectly compatible for each other in every way. We just happen to be a bit decadent so to speak...

We also experience sex as a Divine way to worship each other and sometimes the energy is so intense, our bodies feel like blowing up literally and transforming into another form or just pure spirit. Honestly! It’s like when the core of the volcano gets so hot, it shoots lava for miles and miles before cooling into molten rock. That energy we create seems almost too intense for our bodies to contain at times even after multiple orgasms. The lightness and connectiveness we share continues to keep us merged as one unit for hours and hours after sex, so that there is always harmony and peace between us, unless of course that sexual tension builds up again and then it’s back to the volcano in the bedroom again or anywhere else we fancy for that matter...

Just imagine if everyone was experiencing this sacred sex and being worshiped by the other as God or Goddess, perhaps there wouldn’t be so much darkness in the world anymore, for we would all be anticipating the next Divine encounter with the love of our lives! So if you are feeling shackled in a relationship where Sex just isn’t balanced, and you’re constantly being left unsatisfied, seriously consider freeing yourself to be available to find a new relationship with someone with whom you can reach those dizzy heights and experience Divine unbounded Sex, with a like minded lustful partner. Sex is really not a sin when it’s just like that.